Cut down on caffeineCaffeine, a diuretic, can contribute to bladder irritation and stimulate muscle contractions, which can both cause incontinence. It may also excite the bladder through its actions in the brain. Reducing your caffeine intake, or cutting out caffeine completely, is particularly beneficial if you have urge incontinence.Kegel, kegel, kegelKegel exercises—which involve flexing the same muscles you use to stop the flow of urine—are top on the list of remedies for incontinence. A physical therapist can tell you how to do them and how often; you may see an improvement after six to 12 weeks of continued practice. Keep...